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I have a interesting observation, and more foreign companies are white-collar workers aged 25-35, very few employees over the age of 40, or three-year-old foreign employees are high-spirited, but foreign company managers around the age of 40 is very embarrassing. I've seen around the age of 40 mostly foreign manager has quit, jump to last most of the private enterprises, for example, Tang Jun. foreign staff of the company's success is largely success, not individual success, Siemens, than those of the States United States great, but does not mean that Siemens managers stronger than the States United States the owner can even say far worse. and into the foreign companies often do not understand this early, the 90% attributed his success to his ability, in fact, foreign companies are not random, general manager of China will change what a great impact performance. Well, the question is,louboutin, when these managers more than 40 years old, they salary requirements become very high, and can in fact they are not so outstanding, as the foreign company's boss, how would you choose? some are just not high salary,giubbotti moncler, to a bit rushed Pei competent and energy of young people, some, Why use your?
from the above example, can actually track to see our work, two or three years old when the pressure of living is still relatively small, the body is still relatively good health but also the parents of the above Well, the following has no children, no mortgage and no kids to college, when a small foreign companies is still very bright white-collar workers, and earn more than enough flowers. But man, after all, to marry and have children,casque beats, after all, will grow old, to 40 years old, old parents to see a doctor to take medicine, to some people care, they have to pay a mortgage, to have basic decent life, to raise children ... ... how much money is enough to spend that time was an important need. So , look at work, look to put a little bit further, who the moment of high and low who can not say what.
From this perspective, I do not agree too much emphasis on the first job's salary, but not necessary comparisons first job's salary, which is just out of middle school students is common. normal people have to work about 35 years, which is like a marathon, and marathon real difference is that no professional players in this game Everyone has only one chance. to know that there are not many people even insist the end, most people finally come to the end, only a few people running across the finish line, so at the beginning of time, try to steal the lead position and does not make much sense. when he first entered the community into the 500 if the company would be able to get the 3k-6k / monthly wages, and some special technical personnel may be able to 8k / month, the problem is, 5 years How much to take after? estimated 5k-10k is quite a lot. Although the high starting point, but the increase was limited, and that the young people behind the growing pressure to catch up.
two days ago I asked one of my sales, you A couple of these things will be 2 years to learn all three, but the new salary is required only your half of that time, how do you do?
career as a sporting event, a preliminary, semi final and final . preliminaries, when we all just into the community, most of the strength of the average person is, at this time that serious efforts to make people stand out a bit soon, so some people in their twenties did the manager, some people later finally won the preliminary round, in his thirties became the manager. and then the semi-finals, semi-finals are to participate in the preliminary round win, and every man there is capability, not a problem on the intelligence, not this time then you want to win So easy, a little bit of effort and careful alone is not enough to have a strong perseverance,casque dr dre, to know how to rely on the strength of the team, to know how to rein in people's minds,louboutin pas cher, have long-term vision to see ... ...
go win the semi-finals is not easy, but, is not that difficult. because the law is to give the world a little success and at the same time people become complacent, just won the preliminary round often do not know who won the preliminary round only, with little small achievement up and most people become complacent, that they have learned all, do not need to be studied, they would think that he could not further their cause is not. Though they are still difficult to deal with, but they * no patience, no guest, measure, and no clear long-term vision. like an angry bull, although severe, will eventually be defeated, but won the rematch like a matador, like others, was not rash, followed his own beat, slowly run out of patience and physical opponents. After winning the semi-finals, has been a very remarkable about the professional managers, and became general manager of small and medium companies, large companies Deputy General Manager charge of the tens of millions or even hundreds of millions a year in business.
final came the final, to be honest I have not won the final, so the final decisive factor for only their own speculation only, this time The winners and losers may be written as martial arts in it, we are all masters, made a mistake to wait for each other, to easily defeat their opponents is not possible, in addition to the all the stops, but also need a little luck and time. the world law continues to play a role, won the semi-finals of the people have not only arrogant, they are often opinionated and not listen to other people, some people become irritable temper, the mood became impetuous, health began to deteriorate, their biggest enemy is themselves,polo ralph lauren, in the final to do is not defeated by their own, waiting for someone to be their defeat. This is the same sport, the last game between the master to see who will win the final few mistakes.
Second, the source of your happiness
? You work okay?
have done that job very happy after a period of time? have not felt in the wrong OK? there did not feel he did not deserve the treatment? there did not feel like work at work every day is a painful mess? have wanted to change jobs? In fact, there did not feel the company did not initially think so good? Do you feel this job is to find the original because of the pressure to survive, and it is not right for you? you from your work you want to get that? you happy every day What?
anger on the horizon a lot of people, you have not thought about, why do not you happy? Why are you angry?
In fact, the source of your unhappiness, because you do not know what! you do not know what they want, so you do not know what to pursue, you do not know what to pursue, so you get nothing.
I always feel that his career is his first concern, what you want? Most people probably never thought this problem, the only idea is - I want a job, I want a good salary, I know everyone's desire for pay, but you want to do it all over to find a job every few years process? You want this for every year of work and salary anxious to spend it? do not want it, like really want to know. harm than good, not because of thirst to drink poison desperate. more anxious, feel more need a job, the more hungry, more they want to know, the more prone to failure, your experience is getting worse, people who work under a look at your resume to frown. So you Yuehe Yue thirsty, the more thirsty the more drink, caught in a vicious * circle. we can only lament untimely or unfair things, only to vent up a horizon, in the failure of finding the resonance point psychological balance Bale. Most people have to survive the pressure, I am also There will be a lot of anxiety to survive the pressure, active people will get power from the anxiety, and negative people will get lost because of anxiety. all have to make choices under pressure, which is troubled world, no matter whether you like do not like worth mentioning.
general we are dealing with important things and things into emergency, do not do important things if it will always urgent things to do. such as exercise to maintain good health is important, The doctor is the emergency. If you do not exercise to stay healthy, they are often to illness worry. but also things such as fire prevention is important, but the fire is urgent matters, if not pay attention to fire prevention, we must always fight the fire. looking for a job is so, to what should be their own what is important, looking for work is urgent matters,beats by dre, if not good, you will often find a job. often what gives the pressure of the emergency is bigger, forcing people to do quickly, relative to The important thing said but not so much pressure to do things most people are driven by the pressure, under pressure, always feel that things have to do first emergency, the result is always full of fire, never-ending time. (The work of many people as busy as the pain like the fire brigade, but also because there is no work to do important things.) those who claim to live in misery in order to survive attend to so many friends, had difficulties to find a job today, you do not The important thing to do, is the result not the cause. If today you still as eager to find a job without thinking, then perhaps in the future to continue to suffer the results of a job.
I always feel I have to say topic, heavy points, need a lot of thinking, than Don laugh to play the boring topic of armed police, but the world is no easy success, success, a price to pay. Please forget all the pressure to survive, think of this life What do you want? Therefore, most important thing, first think of what he or she wants.
Third, what is Microsoft did a good job there
Tang Jun, a lot of universities young people think this is the career they aspire to, I sent in my bbs posts Tsinghua is the disdain of these students who, at that time the students just want to go abroad or to foreign companies, but now seems, I was right, Jun Tang go to a grand, Chen created a grand, a private company. a high degree of returnees in the top 500 companies in the bigger salary, which is about the dream of many young people, the problem is that each year graduates are doing this dream good jobs but only 500.
people are to face, and it is like the comparisons, even at work like competition, whether it is not what you want. We believe that good foreign companies, But the good news is wrong? Well, they better office space, this is what you want it? their mission to live a better hotel, which is what you want it? others will admire the work of a foreign company, This is what you want it? that everything is for others to read, why do you live so hard for others to see? the other hand, the general welfare of their salary, and not particularly great, they are fewer opportunities for promotion, it is hard to do very high charge, although they often dislike overtime, but did not dare not to work overtime, because you, and these people often puzzling sense of superiority. you want to clear? 500 some good? to find a job really is to consider what you want, consider what other people want to see?
I Most college students to the United States, and even graduated so many years, also recently went abroad. abroad really that good? my college students, most or doctoral, postdoctoral fellows, visiting scholars struggled with so far, only a decent one to get a U.S. official university faculty. Professor of domestic hard when it? I have several cousins also went abroad, and their parents alone at home, no one to take care of, there are several times were collapsed at home no one knows, to go abroad, really so glorious it? as someone said,
always want to find the best, but, what is the best? you think is the best one, because you really understand, or because people say he is the best? even if he is to others Well, for you must be the best Why?
for what they want, they have to most clearly the views of others not so important. a lot of people are always other people's opinions are often influenced by the views of relatives, friends, comments, colleagues ... ... The question is, who you really are to live life? person's life is not life-parents sequel, nor is it a prequel to the children life, but life outside the articles were not friends Only you responsible for their own lives, others can not and can not take this responsibility. make their own decisions, at least in the end, had nothing to regret. For most people, normal intelligence, no major decisions made right or wrong, no matter how choices are to try. For example, you do not consider that school on their own, not into this industry now,ralph lauren, it could not live a life? will be a failure? necessarily.
I think good work should be suitable for your work, specifically, should give you what you want to work, you may need in order to measure how your work is good, but not to take the company's size, scale, foreign or state-owned enterprises, is not known, is not a listed company to measure. small companies, not necessarily a good company, a lot of work to make money, it may not be a good job. you still must first figure out what you want To what, if you do not know what you want, you'll never find a good job, because you only ever see what you get, you get, is you do not want.
may The best have in your side, but, you have not learned to cherish. People are always looking at things are not at the expense of those who have to get something.
four, the average person < br>
I found inspirational and overseas Chinese people there are very big motivational difference, compared to encourage China's inspirational volunteer who has made a big, Revival, one day as rich as you. and to encourage people from abroad compared inspirational courage to face reality , and to face the plight of ordinary people, although the result is as rich as you, but the starting point not the same, relatively speaking, I think the latter is more realistic in the operation, while the former need to use 999 loser to a winner of the pile story.
we are all ordinary people, ordinary people, which means that the probability it is very accurate. Therefore, we will not buy a lottery of 500 million, we will not be Bill Gates or Li Ka-shing, We will not fly fall, very few of us would venture successful, 30% of us will divorce, most of us will live over 65 years old ... ...
So are you thinking what they want when the quest for see the article I wrote will not let you be their, even if you become them and not my credit this article. people, kings, not many people. target was higher for those who like a challenge is good, but for most ordinary people, but relatively easy to become discouraged and depressed, it is easy to give up.
back, the Li Ka-shing 50 times less money than you, he is more than you happy? Maybe. There is no more than 50 times you happy, certainly not. He'll be happy, than you for a maximum of twice even if you may not be happy. find what you want is not a competition with others, more than anyone else want more higher, more ambitious goals than anyone else. though the Li Ka Shing this goal is ambitious, but you will not necessarily from the The goals and objectives of the process of seeking to be happy, but basically you can not do. You have to listen to your inner voice, can really make you look for something to be happy, and that is what you want.
you want, or we call it target, the target is actually not the level of the points, you do not need no one else because of his lofty goals and I'm sorry, in fact achieve their goal of success, great success small, happy is the same. We chase success, in fact, is the successful pursuit of the pleasure, rather than success itself. professional career path, we will be comparisons of the attitude often blindfolded and forget the pursuit of what is what, forget what makes us happier.
community flourishes in the news a lot, these messages will always be in our heart set off a lot of ripples, the ripples become more stormy sea, and my heart In addition to knock over the waves of boat carrying your goals and will not make you rich overnight. Henla will never be thieves, though envious of meat, but more afraid of a beating, and occasionally see a few of the thieves did not get pounded on the quick to fly, or mind activity, or a large sense of injustice, do you really want to call a thief, but did not dare.
ordinary day I had, to ordinary people's happiness, at least sleep well at night.
five, quit and accumulation
first like to say that work is a need for sensible things, so do not play in the work of individual *, End of the World on some people may think you are very personal * and applause, the Company telephone companies will not think you are very personal * and free your bills. When you handsome to fired your boss, when you dig a lot cool to recruitment HR, bills or to take or pay, but less time for you to make money, in addition to your own No one losses.
I am not against change jobs, but job-hopping is not the solution, and the consequences of frequent job-hopping is to let people feel no loyalty at all, and can not be peace of mind. Now a lot of people from the Internet to find a job, a lot of people looking for work sites are often out of some stupid idea, you know * they are profitable enterprises, of course, profit from their own perspective, people frequently change jobs more frequently the more prosperous they are looking for work, So encouraging people to quit their job. so they will often tell you that you get less salary, you enjoy the benefits worse, is ;. As a result you will not feel at ease, whether you dance the tank to solve the problem, whether it is more fun, that they have no control.
to quit there is definitely a problem, in general problems, and hide is immune, and many people quit because of this or that is not happy, if this is not happy in your present company does not resolve, then the next most companies can not afford to have resolved. You have to believe that 90% of cases , your company is not so bad, you think good companies are not as good. As Siege says, Every company has problems of each company, no problem is non-existent. a change of scenery you will encounter do not know what the problem, instead of this, it is better to solve the problem out in the present. a lot of problems when you really When you want to solve, perhaps not that difficult. Sometimes you think the problem is not solved, in fact, it is just encounter is always low but the trend is winding up, not as often as the pulse back to the beginning, I've seen a lot of candidates to 30 years old, four or five copies of work experience, each time as many as 3 years as little as 1 year, 30-year-old returned to the starting point when starting from a stem from junior positions, take essential primary salary, and 20-year-old young man with the competition, do not feel a bit hard it? What better this time? < br>
I am not in favor of more than 3 years after an industry for the industry, basically, 35-year-old former capital by working hard for our survival, 35-year-old to survive is to rely on capital accumulation, this accumulation, including interpersonal relationships, experience, contacts, word of mouth ... ... if often change industry, represented by the accumulation of several years in vain, all from scratch, if it was twice the industry, only about 35 years old 5 years of accumulation,christian louboutin, and a not changed in the industry, with at least 10 years of accumulation, who would dominate? work until 2-3 years, many people feel that work is not smooth, as if to a bottleneck, feeling bored, wanted to resign, even for a industry, think that everything can be put aside worries will be much better. Actually, this just makes you start from scratch, to occur when the original trade or as difficult, survive on the cross took a big step up, to know that every individuals will experience this process, each person's career,moncler, comes across a few bottlenecks, you through the others do not survive you're ahead. ran long-distance people will know that the beginning is easy, but soon uncomfortable with the first, but after this long period can run, followed by a second encounter uncomfortable, insisted that the future can run some, and so forth, uncomfortable worse than the last, until insisted longer. Most people can not stand the first time, some people can persist to the second, third even though you can not hold on, but did not go to a few people here, and this point enough for you to secure capital Living this life has.
a job to two or three years time, most people will become proficient at this time often find ourselves repeating a lot of people will feel tired, some people will feel get to know everything already, so do not bother to seek progress. often change jobs because I felt lost interest, and feel that they have completed the game. Actually, race is just beginning at this time, working two or three years, regardless of whether the customer relationship , contacts, men, relationships and leadership in the industry's reputation ... ... these are not enough, but the results were always a little feel-good, everyone felt relationships with clients Rail to death and felt very good reputation in the industry. In fact, you can say for sure, definitely not, this time, or to drive out to the previous two years, moving steadily, the accumulation is just beginning.
you enough about your customers? you know what his biggest worry? Do you know enough about your boss? You know what his biggest worry? Do you know enough about your hands? You know what his biggest worry? If You do not know, how can you think you have accumulated enough? If you do not know, how do you let them help you, do what you want them to do? If they do not do the things you want them to do , how can you successful?
six, waiting
This is the most fickle people do not like the topic, did not want to say that this topic, as it would cause too much controversy, and I they do not intend, and argue that, but considering the long-term planning for a career, this is a topic that can not escape, decided to write about, please do not leave it like to watch.
not always wear red light will be hit by a car, not every offender will be caught, not every mistake will be punished, not every corrupt official will be shot, not your every effort will be rewarded, not your will adhere to every time someone see you every second I can not get a fair return, not your every good can be understood ... ... This is the troubled world. Well, anything is not good enough, but Do you have the courage to overthrow the troubled world? If not, you have a better solution it? a lot of time, people need a little patience, a little confidence. Everyone always unfair to turn a few things, but often, peace of mind Waiting is the best way.
there are times when we need to wait, need to loneliness, waiting for the moment belongs to you. Chow Yun Fat wait too, had to wait for Andy Lau, Stephen Chow wait too, had to wait for Faye Wong, Zhang Yimou also wait too see them ... ... now successful adults, you may have seen the original and the patience to wait for them? you ever seen a street vendor in the street Golden Horse winner? You may have seen Devon a group of people in the theater community to an audience that comic? You may have seen Stephen Chow's role * not even a line? each successful day has a deep depression, I can almost imagine them using alcohol to come out pouring worry look, I can imagine them struggling to survive distress. in their lives the most beautiful day in the bright, eager to succeed, but empty-handed, as you now. No one would guarantee their future success, and durability of their choice is lonely. If then they always talking about the more than I do have the ability to have to sit on my head, older than me had to be when I was leading it? Why are some bad people do not need to be able to make money? Why just when reform and opening up people can be so easy to make money , and it is our turn, when what should be formalized? one day I suddenly thought, I'm still in school when they struggle and strife in society, they struggle in the society has accumulated more than a dozen twenty years, we have new people come, some of them I want to, I this is not to be fair, am I to be robbed. because I might gain too fast, because I could not help but lonely. twenty-year-old man, no money , there is no cause, there is the desire to flourish.
always be setbacks, and people will always be low tide, people always have the time not to be understood, and people always have to be humble when it is precisely those times when life is most critical, because we are frustrated, and most people can not cross the threshold, you could, you would succeed. At such moments, we need to be patient, confidence to wait, I believe, will not give up your life, opportunities always come. at least, you're young, you do not go to jail, no students can not cure the disease, not due to not pay the debt. fortunate than you far more than fortunate than you, What are you afraid? Way to go step by step, although that step to reach the finish line very exciting, but most of the steps are trivial or even boring, but without these steps, or the resistance does not lives of these ordinary boring, you can not, after all, who ushered in an exciting final.
adversity, God help your competitors out of the place. You know, you feel good, other people feel good, you insist on not down, others will, too, do not tell anyone you can not hold on, it would only allow people access to adhere to the confidence to see your smiling faces competitors, loss of confidence, out of the race. victory belongs to those who are patient people .
in the most desperate, I will go to the movies left, I do not lose hope, I do not give up. sitting in the car every day after work, I like humming .
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