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First, use of personnel
been to the temple of people know, entered the temple, first of Amitabha Buddha, welcoming smile, and in his north, it is the black mouth of bad guy Veda. But according to legend a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but were in charge of a different temple.
Mi Le Buddha warm happy, so very much to people, but he do not care, losing things, not good management accounts, it still make ends meet. Although the management accounts and Veda is a master, but cloudy with a face all day long, too serious, and made fewer and fewer people, cut off the last incense.
Buddha incense, it was found in the investigation of this problem, it will be the two of them in the same temple, by the Mi Le Buddha responsible for public relations, Xiaoying Octagon off, so incense big wang. The Veda Untouchables, Zi will be more beads, then put him in charge of financial, strictly. In two of the division of labor, the temple thriving scene.
In fact, employing the master's eyes, there is no basket case, as the martial arts master, without precious sword, defloration Fei Ye can hurt, the key to how to use.
Second, buy a parrot parrot
to see a parrot before the mark: This parrot will be two languages, the price $ 200.
another parrot is marked before the Road: The parrot will be four languages, price four hundred yuan.
to buy only what it? Two are glossy coat, very cute and flexible. This man turn ah turn, could not decide.
results suddenly found an old toothless, parrots, scattered dark coat color, price $ 800.
This person will quickly boss: the parrot would say eight is not a language? The owner said: no. This person strange: Why is old and ugly, and no ability, it will be worth the few? Owner replied: Because the other two parrots call the parrot owner.
This story tells us that true leaders, not necessarily how strong their ability, just to understand trust, understand decentralization, treasure, be able to unite more than their own power, so as to enhance their social status.
ability to reverse many people have very strong because it is too perfectionist, hands-on, what people do not like myself, and finally can only do the best research staff, sales representatives, can not become good leaders.
Third, the kangaroo cage
one day and found the kangaroo from the zoo keeper came out of the cage, and then met to discuss, agree that the height of the cage is too low. So they decided to cage Mega height from 10 to 20 meters high. Or the next day they went outside to find kangaroos, so they decided then to a high height of 30 meters.
actually did not expect the next day they all went outside to see kangaroos, so much tension administrators decided lamb, the height of the cage height to 100 meters.
one day a few giraffes and kangaroos are in chat, And by the end of the course to no avail. Management? Management is the first analysis of the main things and the secondary contradictions, and understand what the
Fourth, King Wen Wei Bian Que's medicine
asked doctors Bian Que said: the best brother, the brother followed my worst. Because most people do not know what he had been able to eradicate the cause, so his fame can not spread out; the brother treatment, the treatment for the disease since the beginning of time. Most people think that he could afford only a minor ailment, his fame is only the village while I was in serious condition when the medical treatment. Most people see me in the meridians on the needle tube bleeding, dressing on the skin such as major surgery, so I thought my skill as a doctor, so reverberates nationwide fame. >
management experience: as a matter of control after the control, a matter of control than pre-control, but unfortunately not caught most of the business management experience to this point, the decision to wait until the error caused significant damage before seeking to make up. But often even invited a great reputation of the
five songs suddenly have guests only pay
guest to someone's home and saw the host family's kitchen chimney is straight on, next there are a lot of wood. Guests tell the owner that the chimney to change the music, wood to be removed, otherwise there could be a fire, the owner is not listened to any said.
owner of the home really soon fire, neighbors quickly came around the fire, the fire was finally extinguished, so the owner of the sheep slaughtering cooking, dinner neighbors, in order to reward them credit for fighting, but did not ask Wood had suggested that he would move take the chimney song changed the people.
was the owner, said: they told me, really strange things happen!
management experience: Most people think, enough to settle or resolve business process in a variety of thorny problems, the manager is good, in fact, this is open to question, saying: Prior to suffering in the first place, has become more than chaos in after this point of view, the problem of preventing those companies, in fact, better than the business problem solvers
six rescue
in field fierce battle, the captain suddenly found an enemy position to dive down. Usual reason, that the enemy should not hesitate to lie down dive. Captain can not lie down immediately, he found that he forty-five m distance from a small soldier was still standing where. He was too busy to think
, a diving fighter flying the small tightly under pressure in the body. At this point a loud noise, splashing up the mud after another fall on their shoulders. Captain patted the dust, a look back, suddenly shocked: I just own that position which was blown into a pit.
seven out
ancient times, there are two brothers, each taking a trip with a suitcase. Along the way, the brothers have heavy luggage will be overwhelmed. They had tired of the right hand left hand, right hand and left hand tired. Suddenly, the brother stopped in the street to buy a pole, hung on either side of the two suitcases on the pole. He stirred up two boxes on the road, they started to feel a lot easier.
linked these two stories may be somewhat far-fetched, but they do have striking similarities: the story of the little soldier and his brother are lucky, but even more fortunate is the story of the captain and his brother, because they but also in helping others help themselves!
management experience: on the road in our life, is sure to encounter many difficulties. But we are not all know the road ahead, move away a stumbling block to the foot of someone else, sometimes it is precisely for their future careers!
Eight, king fish, have a fisherman's son
has first-class fishing techniques, been known as the However,
so often to tell people a troubled heart: basic things to teach from, tell them how to weave the most likely to catch fish, what most will not disturb the fish boat, how the net most likely to please the fish into the urn, they grow up, I also teach them how to identify tides,polo lacoste, fish identified flood ...... all my long years of hard summed up the experience, I have to teach them without reservation, they can not keep up with technology, fishing technology even the poor fisherman than I am the son! > tell a passerby heard him, asked: br> obvious you just teach them technical, but no lessons to teach them, for in order, there is no lesson and did not experience the same, we can not make National Cheng Kung University! > an old monk, gather around him with a bunch of devout disciples. On this day, his disciples asked each to play a load of firewood, Nanshan back. Disciples rush to line the river not far from the mountain, everyone stunned. I saw floods pour down from the mountains, in any case can never expect to cross the river of firewood. Without success, some of his disciples were all dejected. Exception of a young monk and master relative calm. Teacher asked why, the young monk took out an apple from her and handed the master said, had not the river, firewood can not play, see the river have apple trees, I dig into the sole of an apple tree to pick a . Later, the young monk has become the master of the inheritor.
the world have to go finish the road, the river also had not. U-turn and the river had not returned, but also a kind of wisdom. But the real wisdom but also in the river to do one thing: thinking of flying kites off an Calendar view past and present, that holds such a belief in life who have achieved the ultimate breakthrough in life and ultra
ten, right hand left the table
popular a jingle: holding his wife's hand, as if the right hand grip left hand.
Whenever someone read out: the familiar or unfamiliar to a table means people will laugh aloud, the atmosphere relaxed immediately. Of course, this is a jingle based on a common understanding of the people - feel accurately describe the place.
one day they begin at the dinner table was also this doggerel, as usual, the men laughed enthusiastically.
later found on the table, a woman did not laugh. Do not men and quickly said joke really. I did not expect a woman seriously said: The most wonderful thing is this First, the left hand is the most that can be trusted; second, left and right hands to each other is their own; third, any of the other hand tell you how excited pleasant wits, you can walk away after all, only the left hand, throw off you on the incomplete, is not it? A table of men are admired, praised the woman's understanding of the profound and unique, the woman said dismissively: What profound and unique, you may wish to go back and read it to their wives listen, see what they say.
men really courageous of them to go back to test his wife, the understanding wife who really are the same with the lady on the table.
they are left, the men of course, to the left of dollars.
they are right, of course, for their right to
XI choice
a farmer rescued from the flood of his wife, his child was drowned.
afterwards, people talking. Some say he was right, because a child can be regenerated, but not his wife, the death and resurrection. Some say he has done wrong, because a wife can marries another woman, the child can not died and rose again.
I listened to people talk, but also puzzled difficult decision: If you could only save one person, whether his wife should save it, or save the children?
So I went to visit the farmer and asked how he was thinking.
he replied: br> on the way home, I reflected on the farmers, then said to myself: so many choices in life is the case.
XII simple truth
the past, there are two hungry people has been a gift of the elderly: a fishing rod and a huge basket of live fish. Among them, a person to a basket of fish, another person asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. Place to get fish people put up with firewood from the fire to cook the fish, he devoured, there is no product out of the meaty fish, suddenly, even the fish soup which he ate, and soon, he starve to death in the empty creel. Another person is carrying a fishing rod to go hungry, hard step by step walk to the beach, but when he saw not far from the patch of blue ocean, he was covered also finished the last bit of energy, he can only helplessly with endless regret doing nothing earth.
there are two hungry people, they also received a gift of an elderly rod and a basket of fish. But they did not go our separate ways, but agreed to work together to find the sea, They only cook a fish every time they trek through the remote, came to the beach, since then, the two began a day of fishing for a living, a few years later, they built a house, with their respective families, children have their own fishing boats built, and lived a happy and peaceful life.
only the immediate interests of a person, will eventually get the joy was short-lived; a lofty goal, but we must face the reality of life. Only the ideal and reality combine it possible to become a successful person. Sometimes, a simple truth, but enough to give meaningful life inspiration.
XIII
not you imagine that two angels to travel in a wealthy family shelter. The family is not friendly to them, and refused to let them spend the night in a comfortable guest bedroom, but in the cold basement to find them a corner. When they make the bed, the older angel found a hole in the wall, you better fix it easily. Younger angel asked why, the older angel replied: The owner is very passionate couple they put out only a little food to entertain guests, and then letting out their beds to the two angels. The next morning, the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears, their only source of income - a cow is dead. Very angry young angel, he asked the older angel why this is so, what are the first family, the older angel also help them repair hole in the wall, however poor or second home hospitality guests, while the older angel did not stop cows death.
unwilling to share his wealth, so I fill the hole in the wall. Last night, the god of death to call the farmer's wife, I let her cow instead, so some things not as they seem. Sometimes the surface of things is not the way it actually should be. If you have faith, believe that you only need to pay will always be rewarded. You may not find until later ......
fourth, cattle
we travel the road to the countryside and see a farmer to forage eaten by cows to shovel the roof of a small hut on, can not help but feel strange, so he asked:
it dismissed on the ground; but I put it barely enough to get a roof, it will try to eat until nothing left to eat all the hay. > This is happening in the UK a true story.
there was a lonely old man, had no children, and infirm. He decided to move to nursing home. He announced the sale of a beautiful old house. Buyers heard the news arrived. Residential reserve price £ 80,000, but people will soon be Scoop it 10 million pounds. The price is still rising. Old people trapped on the sofa, everywhere depression, yes, but for the health situation not, he will not sell this building to accompany him through the greater part of the house.
a young plain clothes came to the elderly in front, bent down and whispered: ensure that you will still live here, and I drink tea, read newspapers, walk, happy music almost every day - believe me, I will take care of your Zheng Kexin! residential price of 1 million pounds to sell him.
realizing their dreams, do not necessarily have to fight in cold blood and fraud, and sometimes, as long as you have a love heart on it.
XVI has given
old carpenter ready to retire, he told the boss that they have to leave the construction industry, home with his wife and children to enjoy their grandchildren.
boss could not bear his good worker go and asked if he could help to build a house, the old carpenter said yes. However, we later see that his heart was not in work, he uses a soft material, out of the rough work. A house built when the boss handed him the keys to the door.
If he had known was to build their own house, how can he be? Now he live in a shoddy house!
We then why is not the case. We casually to So we alerted their situation, trapped deep in its own already-built That you as a carpenter it, think about your house, every day you knock a nail into it, plus to a board, or erect a wall, built with your wisdom take it! Your life is your life only to create, not re-smooth, even if only one day to live, that day to live a beautiful, noble, wall plate that read: > XVII remind self
an old lady sitting on the roadside looking at a wall not far from always feel that it will soon collapse, see someone walking past the wall, she kindly reminds us: The old lady is very angry: Three days later, many people went over the wall and did not encounter any danger. Fourth day, the old lady was a little strange, but a little disappointed, can not help it come to the wall in carefully, but in this case, the wall collapsed, the old lady was buried in the dust in the masonry, Qijueshenwang.
remind others often very easy, very clear, but it can be clearly always remind myself it is difficult. So, many dangers from their own, so the old lady's sorrow will be born
eighth, windows
wife over the years have complained that his wife is the opposite of lazy, see, hanging her clothes outside in the yard, there are always spots, I really do not know how she even have to wash clothes that way ......to her house, not the opposite of his wife only to find dirty laundry. Careful of the friends took a piece of cloth, to the wife of gray stains on the windows erased, said:
ninth, habits and natural
a small pillar, a length of thin chain, maintained an extremely heavy weight tied to the elephant, this is not ridiculous? But this absurd scene everywhere in India and the state of Qin. Those tame Elephant Man, the elephant or the elephant, when it tied it with a chain or steel columns on the concrete pillars, like how both small and struggling can not break free. Elephant gradually getting used to not struggle, until long into the elephant, can easily break the chain when not struggling.
tame tiger who would have been as successful as the tame Elephant Man, he let the Tigers a vegetarian since childhood, until the tigers grow up. I do not know the tiger meat, nature will not hurt. Tame the tiger's fatal mistake is that he threw the net pay after he let the tiger licks the blood flow to the ground, the tiger is not a lick close, finally tame tiger to eat.
small chains like being tied, but the elephant is tied by habit.
tiger had been used to tie, and tame the tiger who died in habits (he has used his Tigers do not eat people).
used to tie almost everything, but not tied by chance. Such as bird accidentally tasted the blood of the tiger.
XX
leave a gap for others to make a well-known entrepreneur in the report, an audience member asked: What? He asked:
He did not say whether these answers: a full stop, be sure to leave a gap, so that my staff to fill it. In fact, this is a management wisdom, is a higher level with a satisfactory overall.
a tree to monkeys, it kept climbing; to Tiger hill, let it free aspect. Perhaps this is the highest level of business management personnel.
twenty-first, horse
horse, had free run wild in the mountains, drink spring thirsty, tired, they sleep on the floor sun, carefree. But with the introduction of horses, horse fate has changed, it's wearing a cage on the bridle, saddle placed on its back with, tied to it, the horse is already 10 of the 23 deaths, and then forcing its transport things, to force it on the line thousands of miles, in its feet nailed black street, more than half the mortality rate of horses. Ma has always been useless without rules of animal, let it absorb the essence of the sun and moon, heaven and earth Aura, useless and inactive, was also able to enjoy the later years, educate it, let it know how to etiquette, but the lives of its victims .
were it not so? The constraints of the rules we have lost this I follow the others all day long established righteousness, do not want to force yourself to do things, limited how much life is left?
XXII, director of the State of Lu useless
have good straw shoes, specializes in weaving his wife Sclerotium. He wanted to move to more countries. Friends said to him: But the more people used hair disheveled. With your strengths, not your place to go with,polo ralph lauren pas cher, so they do not make the poor, are likely to do? it must fit the social environment needs. If you need from the social environment, their expertise will lose value. Therefore, we have according to community needs, determine their own actions, and better to play to their expertise.
xxiii, pagoda on the mouse
wandering around the mouse in a pagoda on top of their home.
pagoda in life is really very happy, It can pass through freely between the layers, they can enjoy the rich offerings. It even can not imagine that others enjoy the privilege, those little-known secrets, it is free to chew; people afraid to face the Buddha, it can free leisure, the rise time, and even leave some excretion in the Buddha's head material.
Whenever believers burn incense and kowtow when the mouse is always looking intoxicating smoke, rising slowly, which whip the nose, heart chuckle: , said kneeling on the knees!
XXIV steel glass
a farmer's story, read a two-year junior high school, the family had no money to continue on for his school. He dropped out of school to go home to help his father farm three acres Susukida. In his 19 years old, his father died, the family of the burden of all the pressure on his shoulders. His mother to take care of poor health, as well as a paralyzed grandmother in bed.
eighties, agricultural household contract. He dug into the pond to a puddle, like fish. However, village cadres told him, paddy fields can not fish, can grow crops, he had filled the reservoir again. This thing became a joke in the eyes of others, want to get rich, but he is a very stupid person.
heard of chicken can make money, he borrowed 500 dollars from relatives, support from the chicken. But after a flood, the chicken had fowl plague, all died within a few days. 500 yuan for others may be nothing, rely on three acres for a living Susukida families, nothing less than astronomical. His mother could not bear the irritation, depression, even death.
he was brewing over the wine, had caught the fish, or even still on the quarry cliff to help people played embrasure ...... can not make money.
35 years old, he has not marry a wife. Even divorced woman with children despise him. He just got a mud hut, which could collapse in a heavy rain. Not my wife to marry a man, no one in the rural areas think highly of.
but he would like to give it a go on four to borrow money to buy a tractor. Unexpectedly, the road less than two weeks, the car carrying his tractor into a river. He broke a leg and became lame. And that tractor, was scooped up, has been broken, he can only open it as scrap metal to sell.
almost all of the people thought he was finished in this life.
but later he became the city where I live in a company's executives, in the hands of two billion of assets. Now, many people are aware of the suffering of his legendary past and business experience. Many of the media interviewed him, he described many of reportage. But I only remember this one episode -
reporter asked him: in the glass of water. Then he put the glass in her hand the child, asked the reporter:
his hand a loose cup fell to the ground issued by the crisp sound, but not broken, but intact. He said: classic wonderful dialogue. Such a person, even if only one breath, he will try to grab the hand of the success, unless God deprived of his life ......
XXV,
A chance to do white-collar workers in the joint venture and feel that their superiors did not get filled with ambitions of her, often thought: if one day to see the manager, have the opportunity to demonstrate their own talents like! !
A colleague B, have the same idea, further, to inquire about CEOs time to work, he would probably be considered good when the elevator, this time he also flew the elevator, hoping to encounter CEOs , have the opportunity to say hello. C
their colleagues further. His struggle to learn more about the boss, find out CEOs graduate school, interpersonal style, concerns a few simple but well-designed weight of the opening, in good time to take the elevator operator, played a few times with the manager greeted After one day a long talk with the manager, soon to secure a better job.
fool missed opportunities, the wise good grasp opportunities and create successful opportunities. Opportunity only to the prepared, and this prepared the word, not just words.
XXVI, lunatic and fool
a psychology professor from the madhouse to visit, understand the crazy life of the state. One day down, think these people crazy, unexpected act, can be considered an eye-opener.
think of preparing to return, he found himself under the tires was out.
something serious. Under the tires of people are actually under the screws are out. There is no spare tire also do not increase the screws ah!
professors do nothing. He was extremely anxious at the time, a crazy bounce over his mouth singing songs of joy unknown. He found a corner of the professor, stopped and asked what had happened.
Professor bother for him, but out of courtesy or to tell him.
crazy laugh, said: Professor
grateful I was surprised, much curiosity: the world there are many people, because they found the work fun, and ordinary people do not always show the same enthusiasm, it was hard to understand. Many people joke that they are crazy, others might still laughing his fool it.
man blankly, doing things smarter, especially in China, after all, a good man on the posture.
xxvii, Dr.
assigned to a research institute with a PhD and become one of the highest educated person.
One day he went to a small pond behind the unit to go fishing, just either side of his deputy director, also fishing.
He just nodded his head slightly, the two undergraduate students, so what better talk it?
soon, is director of the down rod, stretch, rub Cengceng flying from the water to come to the surface of the toilet.
Dr. eyes open almost fell off. Water drift? Will not it? This is a pond ah.
is director of the toilet came back, rub Cengceng is also floating back from the water.
how is it? Doctoral student and good to ask, what they are doctoral students!
after a while, also deputy director of stand up, walk a few steps, rub Cengceng drifting across the water to the toilet. Dr. erupted almost fainted is: Oh, no, arena master to a central place?
doctoral students in urgency. The walls on either side of the pond, going to the toilet across the road have to around ten minutes, while the unit on and too far back, how do?
two doctoral students do not want to ask the director, hold for a long time, too, got up to cross the water: I can not believe undergraduate students over the water, I can not live doctoral student.
listen boom bang, PhD plummeted to the water.
two director to pull him out, asked him why the water, he asked: Since two days the rain water just below the surface up and we all know that the location of wood piles, so you can tread pickets in the past you do not ask how soon it? Respect the experience of people in order to avoid detours. A good team, it should be a learning team.
xxviii, quit
A to B, said: color to see, but you leave now, is not the best time. ? ?
B said: leave the company, the company will be subject to significant losses, very passive. So work hard, then do wish, more than six months of hard work, he has many loyal customers.
meet again when B asked A: Now is the time, and act quickly to jump Oh!
A lightly smiles: CEOs had a long talk with me, ready to rise I do assistant general manager, I had no intention of leaving.
fact, this is what B had in mind. A person's work, always just for their resumes. Only pay more than to get,
your boss than your ability to see the real location will give you more opportunities to create more profit for him.
29, three Jin
there was a small country to China, three identical tribute Jin, magnificent, the emperor happy bad. But this small country is not kind, but the one topic: the three most valuable Jin What?
emperor like a lot of ways, invited jeweler check the weight, work, are exactly the same. How to do? Messenger is also waiting to go back to report it. Great country, not even the little things did not know it?
Finally, there is an abdication of the old minister said he has a way.
Emperor will go to the main hall envoy, veteran chest successful enough to hold three straw, insert the first Jin's ears, ears that straw out the other side. The second straw Jin falls out directly from the mouth, and a third gold miners, fell into the stomach after the straw into, what ring do not. Veteran wrote: The third most valuable Jin! Messenger was silent, the answer is correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable person, not necessarily the best person who can say. God gave us two ears and one mouth, so that we listen to has always been less talk. Good listener, is the most basic quality of a mature person.
thirty, master lace
play one show, he told his disciples loose shoelace. Master nodded thanks, squat down and carefully fastened. Turn until the disciples after he squatted down to loosen the laces.
have a spectator to see all of this, did not understand: journey let him loose shoelace, through the details of the fatigue performance of his haggard. a, and enthusiastically told me that I must protect his enthusiasm for this enthusiasm, in a timely manner to give him encouragement, as to why you want to untie shoelaces, there will be more opportunities to teach him perform, you can say ah next .
XXXI, I
Chen Chen Ado Ado is Taiwan's farmers, have never been far from home. Save the rest of your money, and finally participate in a tour group out of the country.
abroad was all very fresh, the key is to participate in a private tour Chen Ado, a person to live a standard room. This allows him endless novelty.
morning, get breakfast waiter knocked on the door loudly said: What does that mean? In his hometown, to meet the general strangers would ask: waiter knocked on the door every day, exclaimed: The waiter is dumb, and every day, ask yourself what is called, telling him they can not remember, bored. Finally he could not help but ask the tour guide, ! What a shame is dead.
Chen Ado over and over
another day in the morning, the waiter as usual to knock on the door, the door opened on Chen Ado exclaimed:
This story tells us that human contact, often a contest of willpower and willpower. Not you influence him, is his impact on you, and we are to succeed, we must develop their own influence, only the influential people can be the strongest.
XXXII, dumpling skin tip
have a rich kids especially fond of dumplings, eat every day. But he particularly Diao, eat pie, and throw the sharp ends of the skin behind the river go.
did not last long, he was sixteen, a big fire to his family, the parents have died Jinu. This time he was penniless, but also embarrassed begging. Neighbor's sister is very good meal for him to eat a bowl of noodles ambiguous. He is strenuously study, obtain an official post after three years back, be sure to thank the neighbors sister.
sister told him: Do not thank me. I did not give you anything, then you are my lost collection of the dumpling skin tip, dried and installed all who sacks, wanted to prepare for contingencies of. You just need to, and again returned to you.
high official thinking long, long time ......
a famous thirty-eight theory: eight hours sleep, eight hours work, that everyone is the same. Difference between people is how free time is spent. Time is the most affectionate and most ruthless thing, everyone has the same, very fair. However, not all people with the resources to succeed, people make the best use of resources will be successful. Figure survival during the day,polo ralph lauren, evening and development, which is the twenty-first century demands on talent.
xxxiii, requires
three people to jail for three years, the warden gave them a three person required.
Americans love cigars, to the three boxes of cigars.
French the most romantic, to be accompanied by a beautiful woman.
The Jews said, he wants a phone to communicate with the outside world.
three years after first coming out of the Americans, mouth nose stuffed cigar, shouted:
then out of the French. I saw his hand holding a child, a beautiful woman hand holding a child, also with the third stomach.
final out of the Jews, he firmly hold the governor's hand and said: you a Laoshilaisi! Today's life is our choice by the decision three years ago, and today we will determine our choice after three years of life. We have to choose access to the latest information, the latest trends, to better create their own future.
xxxiv, when the tiger comes
two people in the forest, encountered a large tiger. A is quickly removed from behind a pair of more lightweight shoes replaced. B sudden death, and cursed: no sense of crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially into approaching, telecommunications, banking, insurance, and even the civil service which we thought very stable and secure business, will face a number of variables. When more Tiger comes, we are not ready to own running shoes?
fifty-second, first
graduation ceremony, the principal announced that all first year students came to accept the award,
called several times, but after a row, only students who took the stage slowly .
Later, the teacher asked the students who said: fame and fortune is tied up how many people, how many people the knot? We have been taught to be competitive and to succeed, but his early disappointing, but a few, the silent majority of the public after all.
think there are so many people are like you and me, not one thing is very excited about it?
fifty-third, justified
a bus loaded with passengers along a downhill fast forward, and there was a person closely behind the car to catch up with this car.
a passenger in his head out the window of the car chase people: is the driver of the car
must go all out but also because of the potential and the unknown nature of the instinct will eventually fully brought out.
fifty-fourth, I see
A: Did you call the police? .
In the face of conflicts and disputes, when you first think about whether or lose heart, and perhaps soon won over.
One day, Bob drove the mountain road.
while he leisurely enjoy the beautiful scenery, the sudden oncoming truck,
mouthful of black teeth and roll down the windows driver also cursed him: also grew more and more gas, roll down the window so he cursed back:
not wrong interpretation of other people's good intentions, it would only make himself into trouble, and make others humiliated.
in the unknown So before you learn to restrain emotions, patience, observation, in order to avoid post-germinal remorse.
-fifth, Houshengkewei
little boy asked my father: Q: people, particularly vulnerable to Zai Gendou.
authority often just can not stand the test of a sub-shell, especially in this modern era of diversity and openness.
56, do not stress
Xiaoming bath accidentally swallowed a small piece of soap, and his mother in a panic to call family doctors for help.
doctor said: : Since things have happened, why not openly and face.
worry about as soothing the poor poor happy as tension.
57, a solid key
big lock hanging on the door, an iron went to great lengths, or it can not be forced open.
key came, he got into the keyhole thin body, just gently turn the lock on the big
irons surprised, and asked:
everyone's heart, is like a locked door, then either you do not pry thick iron bar is also open.
only care, in order to transform itself into a delicate keys, enter the hearts of others, understand others.
58 Chicken Soup of the four - the power of love (a)
human exploration of space, to conquer nature, will find themselves there is an even greater capacity, it is the power of love, When that day comes, the human civilization will move towards a new era.
- Then you close to your neighbor ......, so that each person has a feeling of warm spring breezes. To others a caring look, a smile, a warm hug, bear witness to God's mercy.
- Mother Teresa
25 years ago, there was a university professor to teach sociology, has called the students in the class to the slums of Baltimore, the survey of 200 boys upbringing and living environment, and their future make an assessment of the development of each student's conclusions are,
25 years later, another professor found the study, he asked students to do follow-up survey to see how old these boys is the situation today. According to the survey results, in addition to 20 boys moved away or died, the remaining 176 180 in extraordinary achievements,ralph lauren pas cher, which as lawyers, doctors or businessmen everywhere.
the professor in surprise, decided to further investigate the matter. He then visited the young people who have been assessed, they ask the same question with,
old lady kind of light shining in the eyes, mouth and replied with a smile: Love is all pain will disappear memories
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only true love never pay attention to room.
father and I talk, he will always be the first to say: the passage of time, the father has entered old age, physical strength deteriorated, but the feelings between father and daughter, but our day than the day is profound.
to 82 years, he has let go away the psychological preparation, and I want him to quit the pain of torture. We clasped each other's hand, smiled, and bid farewell to each other, but still could not resist the eyes full of tears. I said: But many of my personal experience but I have to suspect the
so-called father and daughter with the heart, the moment when the father go, I can sense his chest a heart attack moments. What I regret is that due to certain provisions of the hospital, I actually can not be holding his last breath when his hand.
father left, I prayed daily to hear his voice, he can fall asleep every night I look forward to, but still no reply; four months, I have heard only friends and family to offer condolences. Mother as early as five years ago due to Alzheimer's disease died, I lost both parents, even past middle age, my heart is still the same dazed and helpless, like children.
One day, I hide in the dark quiet room waiting for the teacher to help me massage, while they miss the mood of his father filled his chest, I began to wonder whether their too eagerly look forward to hear his voice . Suddenly, I found his mind sharp exception, surprisingly clear head, even to me a long list of numbers I can add and subtract with ease, at first I suspect that he is living in a dream, but I was sure that this feeling is one hundred percent true. The original chaotic thoughts in their minds, such as water droplets disturb the rest of the lake, this time is unusually calm, my mind on this change surprised that I realized: Maybe I should not have such a force would like to get his father's message.
instant, I saw in the dark mother's face - she goes on in the illness before the rich, loving face: she is still head of white hair, his face still with a smile. Mother's vivid images so real, it seems that my hand can reach. Her appearance as before, I even smell the Joy of her favorite perfume. She stood quietly in front of me, without a word. I wonder why I think there is father, mother, but there's also remembered for a long time the mother and not feel a little guilty.
I said: She gave me a beautiful smile, then clearly he said:
room suddenly burst slightly cold, so cold I can not help but punched into. At this point I deeply feel that the most important is that we had to pay attention to each other; pain will disappear, only true love never pay attention to room.
mother, I awoke this sentence, until now, I forget the moment they meet with her.
Although I have not his father's message, but I am convinced that one day he will surprise appearance in front of me, say it again: Broken Stan
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God, ah! A hunchbacked woman would be a tragedy, I beg you give me the hump, and then leave it to my beautiful bride.
Mexico? is well-known German composer Felix Mendelssohn's grandfather. He looks very ordinary, in addition to five short stature, the hunchback was a strange ridiculous.
day, he went to Hamburg to visit a merchant, the merchant had a beloved daughter named Fauci, Mexico hopelessly in love with her, but because of his deformed appearance Fauci rejected him.
to be leaving, Mexico muster all the courage, the room upstairs to Fauci, grasp the last opportunity to speak to her. She has an angelic face, but his great dismay, Fauci he always refused to look the other way. After several attempts of communication, he shyly asked: > He replied: My bride was a hunchback.
A hunchbacked woman would be a tragedy, I beg you give me the hump, and then leave it to my beautiful bride. 'Judge
let others hold the life of a little different, a little light how easy ah!
Lixiapuluo is a retired judge, he very nature of love. Throughout his life, he always loved the premise because he understood the power of love is the greatest, so he is always hugging people and his college classmates to his taking the Hug me! invited him to meetings or conferences related to speech; always share his because they choose to participate, but in real life does not work. I Lixiapuluo, you told me to 'hug a judge'. I love and you can use them for a hug. camera closely followed. Then he said: It is well known, the most intractable bus driver in Los Angeles, Aifalaosao, bad temper. Let's see you get from drivers who embrace it? Judge Lee I, people call me 'hug a judge'. Driving is a stressful job Oh! Today, I want to hug some people, good people can remove the burden, and then continue working. Do you need a hug do? .
day, Lee's friend Nancy? Johnston to visit him, she is a professional clown, dressed in clown costumes, clown painted on the mask.
Lee invited her to come with a disability home, visit friends there.
they arrived, they began distributing balloons, hats, hearts, and embrace where the patient Lee and feeling very sad, because he never hugged dying patients, severe mental retardation or paralysis of one limb. started very reluctantly, but after a while children, Nancy and Lee encouraged by doctors and nurses, they will feel much easier.
a few hours later, they finally came to the last unit in There, Lee saw his life had seen 34 patients with the worst case, his mood suddenly become very complex, and their task is to love points out, the lights light up the hearts of patients, so Lee and Nancy will be joy began to circulate at this time is encouraged throughout the room crowded with medical staff.
all close to the collar of their small hearts and the head was also wearing a cute balloon hat.
Lee came to the last patient last Leo? Nader before. Leo wearing a white bib, looked sluggish in Liuzhuokoushui Lee see him drooling when, on the southwest, said: laugh laugh, other patients began jingling the room confused Lee back and ask how health care is one thing when I saw all the doctors, nurses cried Lee had asked the nurse what happened the.
Lee will never forget her answer: others who will have a respect of others. Just as the same as standing in front of the mirror, your anger he angry, you laugh he laughed.
a teacher to teach in New York decided to tell her students how they important, to express their praise.
she decided to adopt a practice I advocate, which is called the students one by one on the podium, and then tell the students the entire class and the importance of her, and then give each a blue ribbon, with gold above the words read: thanks to the ceremony, and then observe the result, a week after reporting back to class.
class boy to a nearby company to find a young director, because he had guided his complete life planning.
that the boys will do a blue ribbon on his shirt, and two more to the individual pin, then explained, people, give you the extra pins, so that they can do the same to others thanks to the ceremony. Next time, tell me, do produce results. creative talent, the boss listened very surprised.
this young director then asked him to accept the blue ribbon, and do not allow him to help him on. a look of surprise boss readily agreed.
young man ribbon jacket will do in the boss, the position just above the heart, and gave him the remaining pins, and then asked him: Give you this ribbon is also grateful to the people. This is a boy sent me, he is conducting a study. We want to thank this ceremony continues, we will have to see what kind of effect. In the office, a young colleague told me that he admired very much the creation of my talent, gave me a blue ribbon. Think about it, his creative talent so that I respected, and even printed a 'very important to me' do the ribbon on my jacket, I send more than a pin, so that I can give to their respected thanks people, when I drove home tonight, to start thinking about who should pin to give it? I thought of you, you are I want to thank people.
you yell, but tonight, I just want to sit here and let you know how important you are to me, in addition to your mother, you are my life the most important person. boy, I love you. He watched his father, burst into tears and said: Love is not old, it keep the eternal flame and eternal glory, the world exists, use it as nourishment.
- Zola
This touching story, in a bus, the bus along the remote south road stumble.
passengers inside the car, there was a thin old man, his hand holding a bouquet of flowers, the car over the church, up a girl, old man stared at the flowers.
to the old man about to get off, he suddenly impulsively to the flowers in their hands into the girl's arms. He quickly explained: that after receiving flowers, watched the old man get off, watched him slowly come to a small cemetery entrance.
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should put in mind to think, not that we are happier than people, but only those that we are more compassionate than people.
- Rousseau
Christmas, Paul's brother sent him a new car. Christmas Day, Paul left the office, a boy around the shiny new car retro, very impressed and asked: Christmas gift to me. ..
Paul looked at the boy in astonishment, blurted out to invite him: eyes full of excitement and said: home.
Paul did not expect this time guess wrong.
boy ran up the ladder, he came back after a while children heard the voice of Paul, but the action seems a bit slow. His brother had come out with a lame, placed him on the steps, holding him tightly, pointing to the new car.
just listen to the boy told his brother: This car, then you will be able to hang in the window to see those beautiful Christmas ornaments of. Eyeful of the big boys have to climb shiny car, sitting next to his brother. So the three of them began a memorable holiday ride.
that it was Christmas Eve, Paul truly understand Jesus said,
65, as long as life and death with courage
total, is the pain has become a joy.
- Roman? Roland
I was at Stanford Hospital as a volunteer, then met a little girl named Lisa, she was suffering from severe illness, the condition is very rare, the only chance to save her life, is to accept year-old younger brother of blood transfusion, because her brother also suffer from the disease, then miraculously be saved, and now the body to produce antibodies that can fight the virus and doctors to explain the situation of this little boy and asked him if he is willing to give blood sister and I see him hesitate only half a second, then deeply Xikou Qi said: 'If you can save Lisa, I am willing.' He can not help smiling.
but then he put away the smile, doctors looked pale, with trembling voice asked: 'I will soon die do?' small, misunderstood the meaning of a doctor, thought to have lost the body's blood sister. > - Dan? Millman
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shouting out your love Who would not love, who will not understand life.
- Gorky
One time I was invited to the field, publishing articles on efficient management of the speech. Arrived in the evening, the organizers of the few people invited me to dinner, talk tomorrow to listen to the way speech is what the audience.
Ed is obviously the leader of these people, a big man, the sound is very low. He told me that he was the manager of large international companies, the main responsibility is to some branches, the more difficult to deal with internal personnel issues, termination of employment of certain senior executives.
I smiled in silence, because I know tomorrow is absolutely different with his imagination.
next day, Ed dazed in the audience listening to speech, and then leave the meeting without a word.
Three years later, I return to the old, the same audience to another article published on the management of speech, I also found audiences in Ed. Just before the speech is about to begin, he suddenly stood up, pulled his throat asked me: say a few words on a few, I can not stop you. Joe, I must remark makes you feel happy. say I love you. At first I quite disagree on this point, I thought this nauseating, then looking over and will be able to link anything to do with tenacity? Joe said different tenacity and hard, tough as leather, hard is like granite, and a will tough people should be thinking of opening, perseverance, behavioral self-discipline, work flexibility, these words I agree, but this has anything to do with love? if the brain is still thinking about Joe. instant I found myself actually drum that can not afford the courage to love his wife, and I cleared his throat several times, but then to his mouth, just made some vague sound, then swallow the rest of the go back to my wife looked up and asked what I muttered, I replied without working fine and suddenly, I got up to her, nervously holding her hands open the newspaper and said: 'Ai Alice, I love you 'live to tell her for a while, tears well up her eyes, then she softly said:' Ed, I love you, this is your first time in 25 years to speak love me. 'contacted, and I heard his voice would blurt out: 'Son, maybe you thought I was drunk, but now I am awake, I called to just want to tell you I love you.' microphone end of the line was silent for a moment, then calm tone, said: 'Dad, I know you love me, I'm glad to hear you tell me personally, I have to say to you I love you.' homely, very pleasant chat. Then I called San Francisco's youngest son, told him the same thing, the results of our father and son talked about for a long time, that warm feeling I never had.
have a positive impact. . confidence in the kind of happiness. But most importantly, I now understand, respect for others the best way is to encourage them to play to their ability to achieve the purpose of our joint efforts. this opportunity, I want to say thank you by the way with you mention, I am now the deputy director of the company, leadership, popular recognition. Well, everyone, listen to his speech right now to concentrate! Tony Burton
67 more than a hope that the more people with each other, the more you want to give each other ...... it must be more intimate.
few days ago, I and a friend in New York City taxi, get off, a friend of the driver said: do you mix the underworld? drive away.
take the lead and I believe a little praise the driver who makes a happy mood all day, if he set out today, 20 passengers, 20 passengers, he would have this attitude and good, and these passengers by the driver of the infection, will be pleasant for the people around so count them, my good intentions can be conveyed indirectly to more than 1,000 people, good bar? as many as 3,000 people. He also received a few tips, no less. if that person is indifferent, and that anyway, tomorrow I can go to another taxi driver praised Yeah! Service is really bad ah! 5 workers are side lunch. My friend stopped,
people may be saying this because I have to work even more vigorously, which is all the people not a good thing then? The woman came pretty mediocre, you smile to her?
wish
silent pure innocence, often speak more than filmmaking - Shakespeare
26-year-old pro-gazing her son suffering from hemophilia and dying. Although her heart full of sadness, but she was determined, like other parents, she hopes her son will grow up, to achieve all your dreams. Now all this is impossible, because the disease will always haunt him. Even so, she still hopes her son's dream can be realized.
holding her son's hand and asked: always wanted to grow up to become a firefighter. Phoenix, the local fire department, firefighters found Bob, he had a large heart. The mother explained to him his son dying wish, and ask whether to let him get on fire in the corner turn a few laps.
Bob said: can come to the fire, and we eat together, with the attendance. By the way, if you give me his size, we can help him fire a truly customized system of the eye, attached a real fire hat, not the toy cap, there are even Phoenix Fire Department badges, printed yellow waterproof clothing we wear and rubber boots. these things are manufactured in the city of Phoenix, so you can quickly get. Bob firefighters with Babo Xi, to help him put the fire uniform, escorted him from the hospital bed to the fire on. Babo Xi must sit in the car behind, Bob lead him back to the fire brigade, he was like arriving in paradise.
day 3 from Phoenix Fire, Babo Xi always come to service. He was riding a different fire engines, as well as ambulances and even fire chief's car. He also shot video of local news programs.
dream come true, and as filling in him all the love and care, so that Babo Xi was deeply moved, than the doctors expected him to live for three months.
night, all his vital signs began to drop rapidly, nurse rushed to the hospital to call their families. Then she remembered Babo Xi
served as a firefighter, so she called the fire chief, asked if he could send a fireman in uniform to the hospital, before dying in Babo Xi accompany him. Captain replied: just fire them good partners to see the last time. you open the windows of his room, thank you. There are 14 firefighters, two female firefighters climbed up the ladder into the Babai Xi's room. After his mother's consent, they embraced him, shook his hand and told him how much they love him.
Babo Xi last breath, watching the fire chief, said:
with those words, Babo Xi smiled and closed his eyes.
