Comments: child hours, more dependency on parents, many things related to the parents say that parents of children devoted more care and love, to communicate the problem is not large. However, when the children grew older, especially after puberty, he began to learn to think and observe, there are things that do not need to speak with their parents, children and parents if you do not understand the ideas and practices, or a superior paternalism, children naturally feel free, to be control, no respect and understanding, a bridge of communication was cut off.
My mother once(2) intentionally or unintentionally, the work of their own troubles with the kids talk about, so he was father and mother also have trouble; the other hand, let him feel their parents trust him, he became close friends. To obtain the trust of the child, the child will be happy to learn from him, the problems encountered in living with the parents say.
Comments: busy work, a lot of entertainment, many parents and children for a long time the lack of communication, and parents feel that their hard work for the family billige ugg støvler, money, children should understand. In fact, the child is not only material needs, but also need to enlighten the spirit and psychological comfort. Parents to care for as many families and children, let the child feel neglected.
Now often hear parents complain, And children is almost nothing to say between the common problem of modern parents, the Guangdong Provincial People's Hospital, Guangdong Provincial Institute of Mental Health, said Lin Yongqiang chief physician moncler damen daunenjacken, parent-child relationship is the most important thing is communication, especially when a child in trouble and danger time to say to you.
4 月 7 日 rain was only 12 years old committed suicide at home. 12-year-old would think of suicide? This makes a lot of people can not understand, even the rain's parents do not know why her daughter end their lives.
(3) listen to the children saw and heard. Because the child's talk is not only a way to vent emotions or stress, but also the parents an important way to tap the inner child, parent-child communication is a good opportunity.
(1) more time for parents and children together, eat together, reading, watching TV, etc. are communication, help to understand the child's psychological state, even if what problems can be detected early.
Shen Chao's parents are in business, often from morning to evening, apply Ultra-sometimes days are faceless father's side. Parents gave him to find a tutor extra lessons. Because of the time on the negotiations fell through, the children ran away from home. Shen said the teacher was with Dad, I is not so hard to earn money for him, a little small on the sudden to go, really do not know what the child was thinking.
Weapon:
(3) children and their parents do not want to speak not to indulge in forced exchanges, whining; children and parents want to talk, parents can not be absent-minded.
(1) expectations for their children is every parent's wish, but learning is not the child's entire life, parents should correctly handle the contradiction between expectations and reality, or both sides are vulnerable.
Case 2
Case 1
Weapon:
peek diary, I cry a, his own everything locked in a drawer. Mom is whining is not suspicious; father, though not nagging, but big temper. Every meal Ugg kengät, the table is the dull atmosphere of unbearable, I do not know if I can communicate with their parents.
(2) to more praise and less criticism, praise is the right of communication between parents and children lubricant. Down in communication with the children the kind of condescending paternalism and the tone of orders, communication from the respect and equal start.
I do not know when it will, I feel more like you were the same bird in a cage. Xiao Qian said that her mother was a university professor, I was particularly strict control. Saturday I want to sleep a little, but my mother woke me up early in the morning put the homework. My friends and I made an appointment at a play table tennis ugg stövlar sverige, mother will not let go moncler bestellen, next week's homework is not a rehearsal.
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