(A) What is a good man. A man sincere, specifically, is the man to be sincere. Others with sincerity, to talk about the conscience, is a good man. I attach great importance to the human conscience, what conscience? Simply put, drink from the source, Gratitude is the conscience. Do not think about the source of drinking water, Gratitude is not reported even evil for good is called conscience? But was confused, drinking water not from the source, Gratitude is not reported in life, but sometimes not conscious. I know an entrepreneur in Guangdong called Zhong Huasheng, he made a remark: if a person is a lifetime only to give you a good thing, you can never forget him. This is his make friends. My experience is: the world does not exist for you, society is not built for you the others do not live for you. Understand "no" in order to understand the real "is". What is good? Just said four words: drinking water source to repay the debt, then there are the good guys should learn to "seed". Farmers farming to choose the right seed, good seed yield of 15% to 20% or more. The good seed is difficult to cultivate. Good seed has three elements: First, high yield, good quality. Second, the requirements of the environment is not so high, not high on the water, fertilizer, land and other conditions. Third, the strong resistance, the wind is not easy to pour, resistance to pests. I see these three conditions. The farmers selected seeds of these three conditions to consider. So people's contribution to the yield and quality, working conditions and fertilizer conditions to meet you. And whether the firm is in the rough. Said is very clear, is often difficult to do. Have a friend who had complained that his subordinates, each person has this or that wrong, I said, you talk Just the first, thanks to these problems and more, or else you when this officer can not; second, any leaders are leading a number of shortcomings, per person consciousness are so high, so perfect, still need you to lead? everyone can be a leadership precisely because everyone has weaknesses, and only need help them, the need to improve them, you just say to the people a drawback that do? to look at other people's advantages on the one hand, on the other hand depends on where he still insufficient, but also need help, which is demanding on the environment. Conditions, it is not "good seed", "good seed" is not so good condition, still yield high-quality good, is nice in this place, not so good conditions, the contribution is so large, the conditions are good , who can not contribute? So I said, what is hero, overcome the difficulties is the hero. There is another problem itself and the environment. I wrote an article called "own environment", the environment, of course, is the environment itself is its own, this is the unity of opposites, but the unity of opposites can be transformed! You do not respect others, it is difficult to cause others to respect your environment; others do not respect you, most likely you do not respect other people caused by their own tend to create their own environment. For example, work hard, you always do not task the old finish, the leader does not give you a task, because the task to the blind. Leadership you do not reuse OAKLEY SPLIT JACKET TRANSITIONS SOLFX SUNGLASSES, which is an environment, but may have their own reasons for not working hard, which is caused by its own. Then the opposite is also, as you work you your life to dry, not only your life dry and very well, next time the leadership of what kind of work, click on the thought of you. Leadership reuse your own efforts? There is definitely a relationship, we have this experience. So we can not say that the environment, are unsatisfactory, and the environment from the strict sense, there are always undesirable place, then we have to create the conditions to create a better environment to go to work, but create an environment in which a considerable portion of from their own.

(B) how to identify good. People are willing to do good, do not want to do the bad guys, how to identify good people? First, I think the most important and best way is to contrast control. I wrote a "test 30 standard test is to use a controlled way. For example, look at his good times is pride, and adversity is discouraged, this is a control. Some good times OK, not adversity. How a person in times of prosperity, times of adversity, how, whether to yield to the strong, whether bullying the weak, and this is a person's character. To see than they give people kowtow Zuo Yi, see the weak bully is not fun, this is not a good character, how to deal with the weak better reflect the essence of a person. See the thing to show his face, is grab or see the difficulties, is on or hide, but also a contrast. The people in this comparison to see most clearly, look at that side clear. Leadership, whether on stage or in the audience, whether the same respect. Is a contrast on the same level, whether the promotion possible, whether the same unity. The same level it, and some may be promoted, and some may not promoted, not unite them. There are two situations: a situation to see which promoted a "good relationship with him, for their own good for the future promotion; also the case that this person promoted him up to no my , I must give him problems. With or without promotion may engage him to subordinate cherished equally, which is in contrast seen in the character. Second, do not demand perfection. Good man is not perfect, run out of people's conditions requires a good man, no matter how your subjective desire, certainly against a good man, especially against the good of those that the Director-General, which is a Pepsi unhappy the law, run out of the human condition to ask good man, this is our years of a misunderstanding. Why fight against a good man? Because the good man can be the Director-General, the Director-General a contradiction, but his shortcomings exposed in broad daylight, a lot of people looked at him, if you get a perfect standard to ask him to, he can not reach. So always be able to beat him. The perfect is the standard one at any time can beat the good people of the whip, of the perfect standard is not necessarily a bad heart, and any shortcomings are the advantages of the extension of this very assertive, then comments that He subjective, why? assertive and subjective content can be separated in the form of expression can not tell. Some people work diligently, work hard, party called Gansha just do it, such people often lack creativity. Old ox people dare not go one step beyond the prescribed limit, such a person is a good man, but his maverick innovation, he did not, the advantages of an extended extended to no innovation, strong-minded one to extend on the extension to the subjective, that is, such a relationship. You made him very assertive, letting him a little subjective do not have such a person is not; you let him work hard to make him creative, but also very difficult. But our file, our theoretical article is not to say, ask our cadres both ...... ...... cadres, both assertive, not subjective; both work hard, but also creative. Can not say no, I think this is just an effort to direction, can not say that I am assertive, you can casually subjective. However, we measure the good time, do not the direction as an operational standard philosophy called "antinomies", two words are. Of cadres are often stuck in the customs, there are many very talented people, not been given due attention, always feel that there are still shortcomings. Comrade Xiaoping was alive, it was reported that a cadre, impatience, Deng Xiaoping said, impatient, please, explain his strong devotion to work, not in a hurry, such cadres are you doing? Comrade Deng Xiaoping really understand dialectics, strong devotion to the people who are often impatient, so much to his heart feel good, if thou art the person, his temper, and impatient.

(C) how to do a good job. Said here do not "making nice" in the "good" is good in the positive sense. If the number of people make mistakes OAKLEY OIL RIG SUNGLASSES, may be some good to commit errors than the bad guys more, why? Wrong error is often the one that his purpose does not. But he knows his purpose not so particular about the ways and means, can the wrong things packaged well, he should study each other's psychological study of the objective environment, take means to achieve his purpose, very particular about the means like to engage in fake and shoddy special attention to the packaging, or does not work. Bad purpose, means very poor, which is the most stupid bad guys, bad guys never really amount to anything so. A considerable part of the good man is the opposite as one for work, one for the others, one for the cause of a sincere heart, but do not pay attention to methods, do not feel the need to pay attention to the ways and means, because he felt there are good intentions enough , my good man, I bent Hello, do not pay attention to the occasion, do not look at objects, people accept the bad. A lot of errors on the means, methods, and good intentions fail to achieve the purpose, such a situation not uncommon, so that many of the bad guys is a good man to leave. Some old leaders like flattery, who flattering to hear who, as a criticism of the sentence when the leadership, the leadership should consider. From another perspective, subordinates acting in good faith, but to see the leadership of the old foul words, his day tired to death, you old told him not to, it was not right, this should be improved, that should pay attention to, he can do not bother? his arrangement there may be imperfect, but the work must be immediately dried, you non-stand up and say how many imperfections, to the destruction of the atmosphere, you are well-intentioned, the main ways and means inappropriate . Well-intentioned bad all of a sudden heart difficult to see ways and means, however, are intuitive, so if you do not consider the ways and means, over time, there will be such a situation: good intentions, people not identified; bad way, people feel. I am advocating that people should be crisp, not to conceal the point of view, but a good man should pay attention to the ways and means. I am a consultant of the China Medical Journalists Association, pharmaceutical Journalist Association was established to allow me to title words, just an ulterior motive, Chinese have a saying, "resented, medicine tastes bitter. This sentence is, that critics said, people say nice to think that there is no reason, is a reminder to listen to their views, but he should not be comments by the indulgence. comments can not use this standard. Good advice to be certain grate on the ear? Not grate on the ear is not good advice you? We are now very few soup drugs, traditional Chinese medicine made capsule, still capable of curing, so I "Good medicine tastes bitter to the mouth, resented conducive to the line" be changed to The medicine may not be bitter, cool ear good advice is even more OK ". The good man should be remembered that this sentence, so that you can make your good intentions to achieve the intended purpose and also make you a good man to be found, so that people you have a correct evaluation. Will unite the people is a great accomplishment. Good man is not only spared, be sure to handle the various relationships and the people around, the most important thing is the issue of solidarity, whether he has no flaws, no matter he has no errors, no matter how his level, you are not good at unity, not people the conditions for the condition is not truly be united is a great accomplishment. A lot of people the ability of individuals to do great, but not everyone united in one, there is no such ability, a person had diarrhea iron play how many nails? Only we all started up, everyone's effort before ! very little internal friction, play to the advantages of the team, group solidarity, which is really to have a skill.

(D) a good man how to live longer. How to make a good man to live longer? First, to reduce the heart is tired. Three tired: First, the body tired, dry strength to live, the body tired; brain is tired, and want to write something, tired brain; tired heart. For three tired, physically tired or hurt, in normal circumstances, some sleep and rest over; mind No matter how tired they could not hurt, but the brain is used more spiritual, we have this experience; most He fears that the heart is tired. How to reduce tired heart? To pay attention to psychological adjustment, our hearts a little wide, and enhance mental endurance, which is a very important skill. In my opinion, a person's mind is how he may accomplish the cause is as big. If a person all day long and even a little ring true the little things fit, how to live? To expand their minds. Take I can, the general interests of not deliberately pursue, the general's honor should not mind. I wrote a sentence in the office: General hurry do not chase the rabbit. The bunny has two meanings, may be of interest, it may be interference. General demeanor, whichever is the greater the homes of its small, whichever is the essence, and not be fooled by appearances. Second OAKLEY GASCAN SUNGLASSES, the gain and loss of feeling normal. I have a university degree, I did not think how good this diploma, if you can get a postgraduate diploma should we do, I did not get the Graduate Diploma, this is my interest, university diploma This is not the interests. Loss of interest is the interests of the state-owned enterprises workers without the risk of unemployment, he did not think to get the interest, if unemployed, only to feel the importance of the original post. The original system with people's minds do not fit, do not think it is of interest because he has been, and no danger of losing. Third, the price point of view. The cost point of view to regulate their own psychology. We engage in a market economy, there are three price: the cost of production, cost of sales, cost of risk. A successful entrepreneur knows, to the business must pay the cost of these three. First, the production cost. Some people had known less than production costs, do something good, a good product, have to pay more energy that many people do not recognized, people always want to do the general's efforts will be able to produce a good product, there are more more of the harvest. Second, the cost of sales. Recognized more and more people have a cost of sales, and let people know you and exchange with others, to communicate with others, including the reporting of leadership, the report, so performance is normal. Because you are in a group, we are a collective, we communicate with each other, and let people know you, to everyone's support. Third, the cost of risk. Most people think that good must be subject to unanimous praise, according to my experience, is often not so good may provoke trouble, afraid of becoming famous pig afraid of strong ". Example, for reporters, the two people almost, I always write a good essay, he could not write the old to his mental imbalance, the old fault-finding, this concept does not, that view does not, because he said I a few words, the psychological balance.

(E) What goes around, comes around. Goes around comes around is the desire of good people, the mainstream facts of life, but not all the facts, that is part of the good not good newspaper, evil shall not repay anyone. Goes around comes around, the first system is good. However, the system can not guarantee to have a good with good, evil has to roost, such is life. All good had a good report, good people do not glorious; all evil had to roost, do not do a bad thing, as long as doing bad things, be sure to get the corresponding retribution, who dare to do bad things? Thief stole will be caught, no one dares to steal anything. The people have a faith, look for a target does not change the valuable point of the good guys here, I believe what goes around, able to withstand the good is no good report, but also to do good. ? Is nothing if not a reward, we get?, Income, and this is the accumulation of psychological. Doing good or not reported psychological heritage is good. I helped one person, I did not get any benefits, after all, I did a good thing, psychological accumulation have, the more good, more accumulation. Premier Zhou Enlai age so weak constitution, but why energy is so good? Psychological accumulation of good ah! For the life of the party, the people have done so much good for the country, very fulfilling, get this mental accumulation of others can not be won. others can not borrow. If a psychological heritage, no matter how poor conditions, he is also leading a happy life. I think now the deeds of the first mode character mining is not enough, reported only the first mode character painful side, do not eat, drink, do not sleep, desperately dry, a patient at home do not look daunting, did not dig out the first mode character true happiness. I think that is the accumulation of their psychological OAKLEY TWITCH SUNGLASSES –08, no matter under what conditions, what occasion can be very calm, very optimistic, happy life, Is this not the highest quality of life? So I think the first mode character is happy , which we reveal enough.