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two idealistic letter [Note] son Received a call at home six weeks antecedent, my dad wrote a letter to me said. At that time I also changed a state that what man made birds nerve? Emergency call to leave it, and also wrote. Was analytic the authors is to be my mom caught deceiving, divorce I do not know how to open their mouths? Or want to tell me I have a general big brother? In short I was so frightened of the strange two weeks. Result, I had a go Le, wrote to me the real. Express last night received the letter is very heavy. I am wondering do the authors also sandwiched stack of RMB letter sent to me? Quickly opened it, I X, only the letter, 23-page long letter! The old man full of energy and X of the art equipment. But I have to admit it is good for nothing, after he took in reading the cow sounded, but still out of some much more expensive than my sperm to a small teardrop. I would play out text of the letter, erase some involving real real name and some other seclusion matter, other elementary text performance. Along the text to send my dad blowing a cow, which I have seen this year, the most inspirational men and women silent tears of the text.
father's letter ---
learn to disdain their own, will not compromise
you want to give my father some words
18 number is your 23-year-old's birthday, next year you will graduate to go to work, my father would want to give you some.
been the first to mention someone you may not know.
you four or 5, you particularly like the small penis plug into socket. You actually put your mother was terrified, she takes you to a small penis can be sealed with tape all of the socket.
results once you really climb up the table in the small penis to the jack plug.
your mother crazy hasty anxious and asked me how to do. I broke a lighter lighters below the power of your hand, and solemnly tell you that the small penis inserted into the jack in the fierce blaze than this (aggravate) a milliin times.
From then on, you really no longer a small penis inserted into the jack in, but fell in love with someone another take the hit artillery power of small penis. I comfort your mother, electrical power than other people their own good.
you must have the impression that you started at a dinner, I of the book (Your mother said something, hanging ghost child (children) to see why this writing? Also out on the table, secretly wants to put you in the chamber.
very entangled and lowered his pate at you.
then I see the
I ambition to differentiate you, son, in fact, parents are also installed.
you know why my father at that time to show you of books? Is your mother the a.m. to bathe your underwear draw a chart (draw a chart claiming to be my dad to express the picture of eruption), it is time that we discuss with you the sex. You look at this book, your mother is known in advance. She is scared you embarrassed, embarrassed himself was installed, to give you a good elegance.
So, after you work Do not forget, adults mind you are penetrate through, do not consider that their age Emmanuel (beautiful), others are antique Hi (sucker). Guilty of Hi (stupid), they often did not know.
and your lofty school or High School that year? I can not remember. Once you mobilize your mother drawer, drags out a condom, again your mother horrified. I asked how this young age, school kids bad, how to do this?
I comforted her, this is better than a child in the small penis into the jack to right?
but your mother is still urgent, asked me how to do it is confiscated or put back?
I said, check the creation appointment, apt put the top drawer.
father do just want to gently tell you that your parents are act wrong things to know, so do not still back in area. Dad is an adult and then claim you have sex, but if you have already taken place, and my father does not object, you can use condoms, and my father is very pleased, this shows that we are very successful sex schooling at home, so Dad Dad did not confiscate your sets. Your mother is very impatient to understand my father, of course, my father is not urgent, because the father felt that even if urgent, it should be the girl's parents anxious.
small to large, for your love, my father never interfered
childhood intervention had a back, my father did regret this life one thing, this answer will say it another.
school before you adore to play mahjong. Against your mother, I agree, I think not only permit you to play mahjong capable early to count subtraction and literacy, but also allows you to tell left from right, greatly develop your comprehension. To the 34-year, you have been exercised to work out all the tiles by hand blind. Chinese New Year, you give relatives and friends show. I think you are indisputable face, your mother feel very embarrassed, this continues you will become a gambler. But the fact is, you are now distant more interested in girls than Mahjong.
Later you learn chess, your mother does not agree, that game of chess that is supporting older people with walking the dog amusement fishing. Young people should learn to draw.
then you naughty, did not go to your brother was learning to draw, play billiards every day touch the Palace of Culture. Your mother was base, your mother is very angry and told me to carry you back to billiard shop.
that I find you, you are helping the middle-aged foreman fight with a smoke. Praise your employer met billiards played very well, to take you when the tiny learner, playing pool in this area that you are famous. Dad did not know billiards, the boss does not know is that true or help you bragging. But my father listened to my heart is still very happy.
but your mother happy, I feel the activity of billiards is small fry, not as good as you buckle down movement of aged people.
then let you work study chess.
Later, after my father know Ding Junhuionly Gordon can do that over the aboriginal billiards Offer. If time could turn the clock back, I am compliant to do a small father, even now you do not really Ding Junhui, the father conceded. But now, I think it is not the heart to an old pool prodigy drop their hands up? Then you play chess, Lishui City, took six months after the first. Dad was surprised. Learn that this was, nurture you play chess. The results do not know why, you do not down. Your mother does not engage that this is a specialty should proceed to develop, after conquering the award of the things to be points in the entry exam. Ironically, my father was your mother, do not know who said it was old before the campaign, not hereafter. Even though my father does not know why you do not want to proceed to the afterward, but I think that since you do not want, and force you boring.
Chess matter if I can persuade your mother, then dropped out to write your novel this material, really made our family into a drastic family conflicts.
leave of deficiency to write fiction on your success or failure of this thing
generation breach, this is customary. You do not want to hear your mother had wanted to write novels read, mad, no one yells at you huge chap let her worry over. Also called me, I am indifferent to condone you are free to develop secondhand to. She felt, when the novel can write, but can not stop reading this matter,london abercrombie and fitch, once mixed in the community leave of absence for a year, instantly into the small fry will not go back to study. Even go back to school, certainly no less than the static heart to go to college.
I said, I trust you ambition,长途卡车不是谁都能开的, because you agreed to the father only a year to fulfil their ideals, and then obediently go back to school.
cost of this commitment that I bet on the marriage with your mother. I support your mother know you were dropped out, clamor with my divorce, my father a lot of pressure. Of course, pleased that you finally complied with its commitment with concrete movements that you do not become small fry, or went to college.
you were querying your mother, why do not adore your ideal? You are now grown up, and then think back to transposition, we had two sons to respect your mother's nice?
Yes. Your mother is not ideal.
I told your mother got married, I asked your mother's good, you mom, good money to live hymning, talk about the ideal. Your mother is so small traditional real woman, doing live is a wife, mother, his own personal values attached to their families. As a divide entity, she was very sad; but as a wife and mother, she was magnificent. Her only hope you can make good reading, acknowledged to a good campus, find a good job,女儿留学时自杀 教师为家长孩子痛说善待生命, marry a good wife,g-star raw online store, and then give birth to a son, portly, and then to your grandchildren to worry about. This is all her ideals. And you drop out after a cluster of middle-aged women in her own son, who boast the first few test when it could not get at all. She felt no face, she is the variety of people who live in the eyes of others, she is very weary, but she was too old to do the authors we both have the heart to force her to change to change values?
dad is very knowing of you, leave educate year, entire your mother's nagging and ardent to argue the elders you are upset, a lot of pressure. In truth, my parents it not the case. In friends, colleagues, relatives and front of the family, parents are irresponsible parents, not to persuade you back the right course. You ruined my grandmother also Zhima Cheng only annoy, how worthwhile of your dead grandfather!
but do not regret their determination Dad
because I think for your life, it is a very good education. It allows you to understand that in this secular society, not only need to adhere to the price of a good person, but also a team of people.
father can no redden to boast that the father's mighty support to achieve your ideal.
I hope you can also become a dad.
father has been capable to understand your vision, you know the phrase
I am 29 years old to wed your mother, 30-year-old gave birth to you. Married, lived in the house your mother unit is divided,bandage dress shop, the wage you are my mother quadruple. I steam school graduate, but will not fix not drive, I will take pictures. Because of the penniless, the sisters were at family and even your grandmother have looked down on my father that the father ought not, can not take pictures made a luck.
amounted in a group with the money value of life of the old Hi (sucker) before I'm too slothful ignores them, live in their own earth. Seagull rely 120 camera, and my father sold the most emphatic works in this life, at home and abroad winning the prize, really feed himself.
until it kicks your mom, have you, I know the light is not enough to feed themselves, have to assist their families. Although you do no mind her mom cable money to support the home, merely I idea. Dad did not resist the temptation of worldly, concession, and afterward put down the camera, open dance lobby, open cold stores, a restaurant, I comfort myself, make some money you can come behind to attain the ideal.
but my father underestimated the power of money.
money so that we live in a big house, money to let people think highly of us, the same money squandered the best years of my father. Dad once got into the money in the eyes, in counting to money, the other was not interested. Until then I made enough money to go to elect up the ideal, I sadly discovered, could not find the feeling. I feel like a failure, industrious efforts to do my life down on the year just to keep seagulls into the Nikon do now? Then sleep on the avenues is to become the camera to shoot guiding elegance motel stay now encounter it?
dad once needled to their own ideals in your body
you take the appoint of my father Zheng Yi, is the hope you will agree in the masterpieces. Dad in your childhood, often to introduce you to the camera, see photography magazines, but you're only amused in mahjong. My father coerced me to hear to you every day because half one hour of your photography level. The end outcome is that you fool the Kodak membrane machine where the installation took hold water. Dad was very angry by the time, gave you a slap. This is the father of the maximum regretted asset.
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in this society, the ideal is also cozy to compromise, the appetite is too cozy to zoom.
young, my father resolute to become the world's most powerful photographers, and later retreated to become China's most powerful, and then retreated to the whole of China was one of the most powerful, and then retreated a little in Zhejiang Province fame is like.
and desire?
the beginning my father does not desire to take their preference, production their own want to make things; then I point to support themselves production their own right but also do not want to shoot; and then later to be subserved, and more pat leaders want to make something that not; and then later by the time money, do not take pictures but also row.
conviction (underscore) is passed aboard such a retreat, when recede one daytime, I took the camera hard to tap speech of the leader, your mother playing mahjong with a their own. My 10 years on why ah?
So, when you are despicable aunt said: When elementary school teacher can earn some money? Not as good as the shop down the house with her. You are very childish to say: money is not my ideal. When you are manuscript a good mom you should strive to enter the party and government organs, civilian service exam,abercrombie clothing, a secretary, you are helpless, said: I heard the mirth, only two of them also continue with the old Hi tell you that you can not write to learn Well, many years of work will be written.
father did not understand why you would like to work on this primary school teacher, as I was surprised how you can think of so many prestigious Lishui, then yelempty of the small ads. But my father likes to see you put the things they like to go, and flies happily. Like my father against the
with old, numerous of your ideas will chance more adult
instance, not all compromises are unsuccessful, occasionally compromise is for the greater insistence.
Imagine, if you're equitable a line of basic school educator, you can only alteration a class of children. But if you are a president? A Secretary for Education? Open your own school? You think will benefit more kid?
of course, my father does not require you to understand these principles twenties. If a person from the age of 20 began to compromise, do what you do not like something just to climb as one, then to the father at this age, he never became a bastard compromise.
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childhood in my father's vision is to be taxed up to. Now, as my father forever calls when running a number of slogans, you detect it very funny, such as unity and stress, serious and lively, alert, vindicate the motherland. But when my father, but then call them the 8 children of. So listen to your father last promulgated idealistic long-winded, the father was shocked, you really are not children, and have their own ideas. Dad said you were unrealistic, that is my father at this age folk instinctively question. Later, my father thought before going to nap, why so many folk listen the idealistic life, even the trial have not attempted to resolve their own can not do it? Or even to try to do so against who? Dad do not know why it became such a person deliberately.
father Zhicuojiugai, sincerely hope that you now to live a lifetime of idealism, but also hope you to find an equally idealistic girl. If you compromise the future, do not be arrogant to compromise, do not give yourself an forgive to compromise, to know how to despise himself.
only been despised compromise themselves in mandate to hold on to my principles. Only by constantly reflect on the merit of a imagine, it will not let a short-lived compromise became always give up.
but only a house, a man to rely on themselves to earn
recently your mother alleged with him to take money out of me to buy a house. Her reason is that a man before marriage, the parents are not arranged to give him the house is no face thing. I have apparently told your mother, your future house, I will not be out a dime, will not furnish to disburse out. I think the son is not the liability of parents to buy a house, even now the money does not give you money to buy a house is not a disgraceful thing.
But if you want to start, at the peak of you have a suitable idea to do your father's shareholders; as long as you want to study overseas, and my father is willing to invest in you go bankrupt.
but only the house, I think a man to rely on themselves to earn. Either side of idealism to your own life, while to make ample money to buy a house, or just to compromise your ideal house, and then both have the aptitude to find an idealistic like you who are they do not need to purchase a house. This test allows you to become rich in life and assist you grow.
also unraveled the passing funeral.
your mother if I go first, then I hope you can take your mother to live with you,迷茫。, just like grandmother, like our family now live; if your mother before I go, I will not live with you, I rent a nanny to the first port had rented a house a person.
I do not absence to support you, you live merry,ugg boots, be married and heave their children well is for me, is the greatest reward for Cheng. If after a grandson, and he likes photography, this may be to your house I live the only reason.
Finally, starting this year, after a year to your grandfather Shangfen when you walk in the front. If you later have their own house, then at home you have for a grandfather, even now the lease of the house.
whining to write a stack, and eventually had nauseating about your father's pride.
Happy Birthday!
all the best!
Zheng Guoqiang
2010-12-14
